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Rejection Blues 10/2/07


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Mary Rosenblum

Hello all.

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Welcome to our Tuesday Lunchbox Forum

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I hope you all had a good weekend and are enjoying the fall season.

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I wanted to talk specifically about rejection slips today, because this is the wall that a lot of novice writers never get beyond.

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And you really don't understand what they really are until you become an insider in the publishing universe...so that's a bit of a catch-22

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The boundary between aspiring and published is a wall built of rejection slips and everybody has to claw their way through it. Or stop trying.

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Most aspiring writers...myself included way back then...read rejection slips as a judgement: This is not good enough.

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And since writing is such an intimate part of you, the writer, it feels like a judgement of YOU: YOU are not good enough.

onepozy

I think the hardest part is not to take the rejection personal

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Absolutely. And it's never entirely going to be impersonal for most fiction writers.

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It's a whole lot easier to shrug off nonfiction rejections. Usually a query is getting rejected.

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But most fiction writers put a lot of themselves into their characters and stories and it is a whole lot harder to shrug and say, 'fine, I'll send it somewhere else'.

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So a lot of novice writers simply stop trying. They earned three or four rejections and decide they 'don't have what it takes'.

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Sheesh.

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Let me step over onto the editor's side of this paper wall and give you a bit of insight into just what is going on here.

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I'm talking fiction right now. Nonfiction is similar but a bit different.

barbiq

Didn't you say once that you had to collect at least 100 rejection slips?

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Yep.

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That's my standard and it's not that exactly 100 is necessary, it's to give you a bit of perspective.

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Plan on earning at least 100 rejection slips as you break in. You may earn less. You may earn more if you're very prolific and whip a lot of stuff out without revision.

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My buddy Jay Lake used to write and mail out a story every few days. They were short shorts and even he admits that a lot were rough. He got WAY more than 100 rejections, let me tell you.

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But he persevered and he got better and he's quite well established as a pro now.

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All editors are looking for The Next Big Name.

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That is going to sell books/magaizines and that is how they earn their paycheck and make their own reputation.

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So they DO want your work. BUT...they want a lot of work from you and they want consistent quality.

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And they have seen a lot of writers, believe me. They don't want someone who is going to write one or two good stories and vanish.

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They want that obsessive who is going to write and submit because he/she can't quit.

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Remember..readers tend to buy work by writers they know.

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So your first stories, yoiur first book, isn't going to sell much. It's almost a give away.

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The editor will sell issues of the mag or copies of the book after you build your name.

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Say you send an editor a good story. It's as good as the pros he's got on his desk. Nice piece. But it's no better than those pro submissions, and you don't have a name.

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So he passes on it, maybe scribbles a 'send me more' comment on the slip. Or uses the form that says 'send me more'.

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He means it.

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Another good story shows up. Another.

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Still rejected, but hey, this person is persistent and each story is a bit better than the one before. Hmmm.

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Nearly all writers are to a degree loyal to the editor who breaks them in, and editors build reputation by spotting hot new writers first.

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So our editor thinks 'Hmmm...if I don't start this person, somone else is going to grab her'. And he buys that first story from you.

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Almost always, the editor will recognize your name and know how you write before he/she ever buys from you.

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I get a kick out of novice writers who approach a magazine editor at a conference to go wide-eyed in shock as the editor says, 'Oh yes, I know you. That last story you sent in was pretty close'.

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So why don't they tell you?

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Yeah, I wondered, too.

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The reality is that editors get turned off to that pretty quickly.

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A few really vitriolic letters from people who misunderstood a bit of friendly encouragement make you shut up.

andi

How does a writer know if he or she will write more than one or two stories?

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Well, Andi, it's a matter of you, yourself. If writing is something you do because you love to do it, you can't NOT do it, then you're the sort of person

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who has the drive to become a pro. It is a lot of hard work. A LOT of hard work!

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If you have just written a couple of stories for, say, the LR course, and it's something you might do once in awhile, when the spirit moves you,

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well, you might sell one of these stories or you might not, but you're not going to write a lot of stories. It's fine to have writing as a hobby only. Nothing wrong with that.

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Don't forget that many many 'for the luv of' markets exist, especially as ezines. These are small epublishers that don't pay.

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You can almost always find a home for your well written story, you just won't get paid for it, and not as many people will read it.

barbiq

What do you do when an editor asks you to submit on "spec" and you only have a couple or articules that fit their magazine?

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Well, barb, 'on spec' just means they want the finished piece and they'll say yes or no to buying it when they read it. That's pretty standard until you have a name to sell.

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I'd send in anything that suits the market.

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In nonfiction, you generally pitch the idea for an article in a query letter.

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You get a lot of rejections as a novice without clips.

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Editors want the assurance that you can deliver what you promise and that's what clips provide.

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But NF editors have many issues to fill every year and they are hungry for new regulars.

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If your query letter is professional and you offer ideas that suit the magazine, you will probably get either a yes or an assignment fairly quicly.

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The editor might say 'not this, but write me this one'.

jacinda2

If an editor has not rejected my story, and their response time has expired, should I send another?

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Well, you can, but your original submission is probably still on the editor's desk. And when you send in your second story, that editor is going to pull the first and read them both.

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If he/she likes your work, you might sell one of the two.

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If that editor buys piece number one and THEN gets piece number two and likes that even better, editor has already bought one, so will now buy two as well.

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So it's really a bit better to wait.

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The really hard part is not to let the discouragement of all those rejections get you down.

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The hardest part in a writer's career is that period when you're writing publishable work and you KNOW you are, but you're getting rejection after rejection.

jacinda2

What if I have submitted 3 stories, and get a rejection letter for 2 of them. Does that mean there's hope for the 3rd? From an editor that accepts multiple sub's, of course.

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Sure. If you haven't gotten a rejetion yet, it could be an acceptance, eh?

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A very good plan to follow is to do a market search each time you finish a story, or each time you decide on a subject for a NF piece.

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For your fiction story, come up with five potential markets.

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Rank them from largest -- with the most pay -- to smallest, ending with the 'for the luv of' markets last.

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Type out the editor's name and submission address. Now file it. Send the story to the first market on the list.

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If you get a rejection back, that very day put a clean copy into a new envelope, address it to market 2, and send it out.

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Work your way down the list. When you run out of markets, if it is still not sold, then shelve it until you find a new market or figure out a way to revise it.

reece

Just out of curiosity are you more likely to get a rejection sooner then an acceptance? or vice versa?

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It varies according to the editor's work habits, but when I was breaking in, I found that more often than not

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it took the editor quite a bit longer to send me an acceptance than a rejection.

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They will often hold a story from a novice, looking for a strong issue that can 'take' a new writer with no name recognition

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or looking for an issue with a theme that suits that particular story.

gail

Whenever I receive a rejection, I go back to the story and edit it or revise it. I never send it out again, right away, as is. Should I rethink this process?

Mary Rosenblum

I sure would, gail.

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If you get a rejection with no information, no reason why it was rejected, you have no idea if anything is wrong with the story.

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The editor might have just purchased a similar story.

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The editor might hate cats and you have a cat in it. You just don't know.

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So say you revise the story. The next editor you send it to might have purchased your original version, but your revision has changed it and now it just doesn't quite work.

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So she passes on it.

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This is the big mistake...thinking that the 'no thanks' means 'not good enough'.

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Now sometimes it does. EVerybody starts sending work out before they reach their fullest potential.

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You're going to send weak stories out because you can't yet see how to make them better.

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But you don't KNOW.

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So don't assume the story is at fault and just change it.

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What one editor LOVES another editor shrugs over.

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Now if you get comments back...'the end just didnt work for me'...then think about it.

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Does the end work?

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Some of the flash fiction markets: Flashquake and one other (can't think of the name right now) send back editorial comments.

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Several students have passed them on to me and they've been useful.

jacinda2

What if a publication that doesn't accept sim sub's never responds. When is it safe to submit to another mag?

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You should formally withdraw it first, jacinda. Don't be in too much of a rush though. Editors are people, too, and they get behind.

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I usually give a new market twice the published response time before I query.

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If you want to send it elsewhere, then send off a letter to the editor saying, 'I am withdrawing my story XXXX from consideration. Thank you.'

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Be polite. You want that editor to buy more from you later on. Next time, he'll respond a bit more quickly, eh? :-)

gail

My most frequent rejection is "not suitable for this market." I do my best to research each market, but given my rural (Canadian) location, I don't have access to many magazines. I can't afford to buy copies of all the magazines I wish to submit to. How can I best resolve these issues?

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Realistically, most guidelines sound remarkably alike. And of course, the content is not.

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In reality, the only way to seriously research a market is to read multiple copies of the magazine, or look up all the recent titles of a book publisher.

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You might focus on one or two markets you really want to crack, gail.

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Subscribe or buy back issues.

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You can also find magazines in many libraries or find sample stories on the magazine website these days.

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Do some internet searching and look for reviews of fiction published in that particular magazine.

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For nonfiction, you really are wise to get hold of back issues.

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That query letter has to reflect the fact that you know what the editor wants.

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Generally, NF editors will not respond to a query letter that is 'off the mark' or is not professional in tone or form.

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You will know that you are close when you get a comment from the editor.

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That means the editor expects to buy from you soon.

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If you get a rejection that says 'send us more' they mean it.

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Believe me, the average large circulation mag gets about 1000 submissions a week.

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They do NOT want your submission if they don't think it's something they can use.

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Just running the mailroom is a big job!

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And do your market homework. Read those guidelines all the way through.

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If they say they want first person stories only, do not send them something written in third person!

gail

You've said that to receive a hand-written comment, any comment, is a positive sign -- the editor likes your work welll enough to respond personally. Is the note "not suitable for this market" one of those "any comments?" :)

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Well, in a way, Gail. :-) The editor is saying 'I don't want this type of story'.

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So don't send something similar to this market. :-)

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If you send a vampire story to Asimov's you'll probably get one of those.

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If you send a bloody horror story to F &SF you'll probably get one of those.

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If you send a hard boiled detective story to Glimmer Train you'll probably get one of those.

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A good story in the wrong market isn't going to sell.

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Doesn't mean the story isn't good.

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Just means the market choice is wrong.

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The more you send your work out, the more likely you are to sell.

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You are looking for the editor who reads your story and it clicks. I like this, she says. And she buys it.

gail

Choosing the correct market has to be, for me, THE hardest part of writing!

Mary Rosenblum

Oh, it is.

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You get better at it as you go along.

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If you can go to writers conferences and pay attention, you'll learn quite a bit about markets.

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Editors and agents will comment on markets on publishing panels.

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You'll hear a lot of gossip among pros in the field.

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Take notes!

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Read at least one of the publishing magazines and pay attention to it.

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The Writer, Locus for the speculative fiction market, that sort of thing.

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Some of the professional organizations allow you to subscribe to their newsletter, even if you don't yet have the credentials to join -- SFWA does, MWA does

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and of course anyone can join RWA, they have a very good newsletter.

geezer

I received a reject with a note saying it was just like some movie I never heard of! How could I plagiarize something I've never seen?

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I doubt the editor was accusing you of plagiarism, geeze, but what that editor was saying is that it has been done recently enough that people will think it's a copy.

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Just one of those unfortunate things.

gail

I got one rejection that was illegible. Great. I managed to figure out most of it...except the adjective she used about my work. Guess it would be a no-no to ask that editor what she wrote???

Mary Rosenblum

No, I wouldn't ask, Gail. :-) Make a good guess. Or mention it the next time you're writing her a cover letter.

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That will add a bit of personalization to the letter.

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Rejection slips are very hard to deal with. They hurt, they make you feel like a failure, and you simply have to deal with them if you want to be a writer.

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I still get rejection slips and I have a very strong reputation in the SF universe. But sometimes a story just doesn't click for a particular editor.

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You never get past rejection slips. :-)

pattipan

What are RWA and MWA

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Oh, sorry, Patti.

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Romance Writers of America (join it if you want to write romance, it's very good at helping novices).

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Mystery Writers of America (you have to have published a mystery novel with a big NY publisher to join)

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Science Fiction and Fantasy Writers of America (you have to have a published novel or three short story sales from well-paying markets to join).

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But you can get the newsletter even if you don't belong.

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Well, I hope this helps when that next rejection letter comes in. Pop the piece into a new envelope and turn it right around.

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Remember...what do you call a persistent writer? In unison please....

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Published!

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I'll post the transcript in the usual place.

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Writing Craft: Forum Transcripts.

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See you all Thursday.

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Come ask Simon Rose how he went from a graduated ICL student to well published. :-)

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See you all then!

 

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